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Canadian Freelancer Living the “Remote Dream” since 2014

I’m a Canadian copywriter who builds WordPress sites for B2B companies. I also share the truth about remote life and know how to cure depression.

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Business Building & Freelancing Tips

How Money-Making Businesses Are Built

Hard-earned lessons from 10+ years building businesses remotely. Ideas on pricing, positioning, and delivering high-value services.

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Living the Remote Life Dream

Chasing Your Own Remote Lifestyle

Honest stories from living in Asia since 2014. The freedom, the visa runs, the questionable decisions, and everything in between.

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My Journey to Ironman

Training for My First Ironman by 2029

My journey to becoming an Ironman before I turn 40. Race results, training updates, and why triathlons are the cure to depression.

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Hi, I’m Jef van de Graaf

At 24, I sold everything I owned, bought a one-way ticket to Tokyo, and left Canada with nothing but a bicycle.

I cycled across Asia for four years. Built a private English teaching business in Japan from zero to 65 students in eight months. Now I’m training for an Ironman while freelancing for B2B companies from a fourth-floor condo in Chiang Mai.

If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to build a life completely on your own terms โ€” this blog is for you.

Here you’ll find the strategies, experiments, and hard-won lessons from over a decade navigating the great unknown.